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A List of The 52 Virtues
Here are the 52 virtues that have inspired the 52 Virtues
Project. They are taken from "The
Virtues Project Educator's Guide: Simple Ways to Create a Culture of
Character"
Assertiveness
Being assertive means being positive and confident. You are aware that you
are a worthy person with your own special gifts. You think for yourself
and express your own ideas. You know what you stand for and what you won’t
stand for. You expect respect.
Caring
Caring is giving love and attention to people and things that matter to you.
When you care about people, you help them. You do a careful job, giving your
very best effort. You treat people and things gently and respectfully. Caring
makes the world a safer place.
Cleanliness
Cleanliness means washing often, keeping your body clean, and wearing clean clothes.
It is putting into your body and your mind only the things that keep you healthy.
It is staying free from harmful drugs. It is cleaning up mistakes and making
a fresh start.
Commitment
Commitment is caring deeply about something or someone. It is deciding carefully
what you want to do, then giving it 100%, holding nothing back. You give your
all to a friendship, a task, or something you believe in. You finish what you
start. You keep your promises.
Compassion
Compassion is understanding and caring when someone is hurt or troubled, even
if you don’t know them. It is wanting to help, even if all you can do is
listen and say kind words. You forgive mistakes. You are a friend when someone
needs a friend.
Confidence
Confidence is having faith in someone. Self-confidence is trusting that you have
what it takes to handle whatever happens. You feel sure of yourself and enjoy
trying new things, without letting doubts or fears hold you back. When you have
confidence in others, you rely on them.
Consideration
Consideration is being thoughtful of other people and their feelings. You consider
how your actions affect them. You pay careful attention to what others like and
don’t like, and do things that give them happiness.
Cooperation
Cooperation is working together and sharing the load. When we cooperate,
we join with others to do things that cannot be done alone. We are
willing to follow the rules which keep everyone safe and happy. Together
we can accomplish great things.
Courage
Courage is bravery in the face of fear. You do the right thing even
when it is hard or scary. When you are courageous, you don’t
give up. You try new things. You admit mistakes. Courage is the strength
in your heart.
Courtesy
Courtesy is being polite and having good manners. When you speak and
act courteously, you give others a feeling of being valued and respected.
Greet people pleasantly. Bring courtesy home. Your family needs it most
of all. Courtesy helps life to go smoothly.
Creativity
Creativity is the power of imagination. It is discovering your own special
talents. Dare to see things in new ways and find different ways to solve
problems. With your creativity, you can bring something new into the
world.
Detachment
Detachment is experiencing your feelings without allowing your feelings
to control you. Instead of just reacting, with detachment you are free
to choose how you will act. You use thinking and feeling together, so
you can make smart choices.
Determination
You focus your energy and efforts on a task and stick with it until it
is finished. Determination is using your will power to do something when
it isn't easy. You are determined to meet your goals even when it is
hard or you are being tested. With determination we make our dreams come
true.
Diligence
Diligence is working hard and doing your absolute best. You take special
care by doing things step by step. Diligence helps you to get things
done with excellence and enthusiasm. Diligence leads to success.
Enthusiasm
Enthusiasm is being cheerful, happy, and full of spirit. It is doing
something wholeheartedly and eagerly. When you are enthusiastic, you
have a positive attitude. Enthusiasm is being inspired.
Excellence
Excellence is doing your best, giving careful attention to every task
and every relationship. Excellence is effort guided by a noble purpose.
It is a desire for perfection. The perfection of a seed comes in the
fruit. When you practice excellence, you bring your gifts to fruition.
Excellence is the key to success.
Flexibility
Flexibility is being open to change. You consider others’ ideas
and feelings and don’t insist on your own way. Flexibility gives
you creative new ways to get things done. You get rid of bad habits and
learn new ones. Flexibility helps you to keep changing for the better.
Forgiveness
Being forgiving is giving someone another chance after they have done
something wrong. Everyone makes mistakes. Instead of revenge, make amends.
Forgive yourself too. Instead of feeling hopeless after a mistake, decide
to act differently, and have faith that you can change.
Friendliness
Friendliness is being a friend, through good times and bad. You take
an interest in other people and make them feel welcome. You share your
belongings, your time and yourself. Friendliness is the best cure for
loneliness.
Generosity
Generosity is giving and sharing. You share freely, not with the idea
of receiving something in return. You find ways to give others happiness,
and give just for the joy of giving. Generosity is one of the best ways
to show love and friendship.
Gentleness
Gentleness is moving wisely, touching softly, holding carefully, speaking
quietly and thinking kindly. When you feel mad or hurt, use your self-control.
Instead of harming someone, talk things out peacefully. You are making
the world a safer, gentler place.
Helpfulness
Helpfulness is being of service to others, doing thoughtful things that
make a difference in their lives. Offer your help without waiting to
be asked. Ask for help when you need it. When we help each other, we
get more done. We make our lives easier.
Honesty
Honesty is being truthful and sincere. It is important because it builds
trust. When people are honest, they can be relied on not to lie, cheat
or steal. Being honest means that you accept yourself as you are. When
you are open and trustworthy, others can believe in you.
Honor
Honor is living by the virtues, showing great respect for yourself, other
people, and the rules you live by. When you are honorable, you keep your
word. You do the right thing regardless of what others are doing. Honor
is a path of integrity.
Humility
Being humble is considering others as important as yourself. You are
thoughtful of their needs and willing to be of service. You don’t
expect others or yourself to be perfect. You learn from your mistakes.
When you do great things, humility reminds you to be thankful instead
of boastful.
Idealism
When you have ideals, you really care about what is right and meaningful
in life. You follow your beliefs. You don’t just accept things
the way they are. You make a difference. Idealists dare to have big dreams
and then act as if they are possible.
Integrity
Integrity is living by your highest values. It is being honest and sincere.
Integrity helps you to listen to your conscience, to do the right thing,
and to tell the truth. You act with integrity when your words and actions
match. Integrity gives you self-respect and a peaceful heart.
Joyfulness
Joyfulness is an inner sense of peace and happiness. You appreciate the
gifts each day brings. Without joyfulness, when the fun stops, our happiness
stops. Joy can carry us through the hard times even when we are feeling
very sad. Joy gives us wings.
Justice
Practicing justice is being fair. It is solving problems so everyone
wins. You don’t prejudge. You see people as individuals. You don’t
accept it when someone acts like a bully, cheats or lies. Being a champion
for justice takes courage. Sometimes when you stand for justice, you
stand alone.
Kindness
Kindness is showing you care, doing some good to make life better for
others. Be thoughtful about people’s needs. Show love and compassion
to someone who is sad or needs your help. When you are tempted to be
cruel, to criticize or tease, decide to be kind instead.
Love
Love is a special feeling that fills your heart. You show love in a smile,
a kind word, a thoughtful act or a hug. Love is treating people and things
with care and kindness because they mean so much to you. Love is contagious.
It keeps spreading.
Loyalty
Loyalty is staying true to someone. It is standing up for something you
believe in without wavering. It is being faithful to your family, country,
school, friends or ideals, when the going gets tough as well as when
things are good. With loyalty, you build relationships that last forever.
Moderation
Moderation is creating a healthy balance in your life between work and
play, rest and exercise. You don’t overdo or get swept away by
the things you like. You use your self-discipline to take charge of your
life and your time.
Modesty
Modesty is having self-respect. When you value yourself with quiet pride,
you accept praise with humility and gratitude. Modesty is being comfortable
with yourself and setting healthy boundaries about your body and your
privacy.
Orderliness
Orderliness is being neat and living with a sense of harmony. You are
organized, and you know where things are when you need them. Solve problems
step by step instead of going in circles. Order around you creates order
inside you. It gives you peace of mind.
Patience
Patience is quiet hope and trust that things will turn out right. You
wait without complaining. You are tolerant and accepting of difficulties
and mistakes. You picture the end in the beginning and persevere to meet
your goals. Patience is a commitment to the future.
Peacefulness
Peacefulness is being calm inside. Take time for daily reflection and
gratitude. Solve conflicts so everyone wins. Be a peacemaker. Peace
is giving up the love of power for the power of love. Peace in the
world begins with peace in your heart.
Perseverance
Perseverance is being steadfast and persistent. You commit to your goals
and overcome obstacles, no matter how long it takes. When you persevere,
you don't give up...you keep going. Like a strong ship in a storm, you
don't become battered or blown off course. You just ride the waves.
Purposefulness
Being purposeful is having a clear focus. Begin with a vision for what
you want to accomplish, and concentrate on your goals. Do one thing at
a time, without scattering your energies. Some people let things happen.
When you are purposeful, you make things happen.
Reliability
Reliability means that others can depend on you. You keep your commitments
and give your best to every job. You are responsible. You don’t
forget, and you don’t need to be reminded. Other people can relax
knowing things are in your reliable hands.
Respect
We show respect by speaking and acting with courtesy. We treat others
with dignity and honor the rules of our family, school and nation. Respect
yourself, and others will respect you.
Responsibility
Being responsible means others can trust you to do things with excellence.
You accept accountability for your actions. When you make a mistake,
you offer amends instead of excuses. Responsibility is the ability to
respond ably and to make smart choices.
Self-discipline
Self-discipline means self-control. It is doing what you really want
to do, rather than being tossed around by your feelings like a leaf in
the wind. You act instead of react. You get things done in an orderly
and efficient way. With self-discipline, you take charge of yourself.
Service
Service is giving to others, making a difference in their lives. You
consider their needs as important as your own. Be helpful without waiting
to be asked. Do every job with excellence. When you act with a spirit
of service, you can change the world.
Tact
Tact is telling the truth kindly, considerate of how your words affect
others’ feelings. Think before you speak, knowing what is better
left unsaid. When you are tactful, others find it easier to hear what
you have to say. Tact builds bridges.
Thankfulness
Thankfulness is being grateful for what we have. It is an attitude of
gratitude for learning, loving and being. Appreciate the little things
that happen around you and within you every day. Think positively. Thankfulness
brings contentment.
Tolerance
Being tolerant is accepting differences. You don’t expect others
to think, look, speak or act just like you. You are free of prejudice,
knowing that all people have feelings, needs, hopes and dreams. Tolerance
is also accepting things you wish were different with patience and flexibility.
Trust
Trust is having faith in someone or something. It is a positive attitude
about life. You are confident that the right thing will happen without
trying to control it or make it happen. Even when difficult things happen,
trust helps us to find the gift or lesson in it.
Trustworthiness
Trustworthiness is being worthy of trust. People can count on you to
do your best, to keep your word and to follow through on your commitments.
You do what you say you will do. Trustworthiness is a key to success
in anything you do.
Truthfulness
Truthfulness is being honest in your words and actions. You don’t
tell lies even to defend yourself. Don’t listen to gossip or prejudice.
See the truth for yourself. Don’t try to be more than you are to
impress others. Be yourself, your true self.
Understanding
Understanding is using your mind to think clearly, paying careful attention
to see the meaning of things. An understanding mind gives you insights
and wonderful ideas. An understanding heart gives you empathy and compassion
for others. Understanding is the power to think and learn and also
to care.
Unity
Unity helps us work and live together peacefully. We feel connected with
each other and all living things. We value the specialness of each person
as a gift, not as a reason to fight or be scared. With unity we accomplish
more together than any of one of us could alone.
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